Dubious

Someone told me...

"Vie.. it's your turn to think about your self, you've been thinking of everyone's opinion in making any decision in your life"

I was like... slapped very hard right on my face,,

Then.. that person also reminded me; "I know, we should think of others, but it doesn't mean you put your heart back there, and leave it just like that, you need a better life, you deserve to get something better"

I've been thinking all those words,, and it's not that easy to ignore people whom you always think of...

It's easy to put your self higher, the hardest part is when you have to keep your self right there.. like forever.. because we never be able to predict the exact thing that will happen tomorrow.

Getting something is easier than maintaining something..

hmm..


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"FaMiLy"

One day in my speaking class...

I asked my students a question :
"If you have a lot of money.. what will you do?"

Everyone smiled, one answered: "I'll go to Japan, I love that country very much"
I asked: "why Japan?"
He said: "well, I like the cultures, the people, the buildings,hmm.. everything about it"

Then the other student suddenly attracted my attention, She said: "Miss Vie.. if I have a lot of money, I'll go to Bali, and live there"

I smiled, and asked other students: "what about you guys? do you wanna buy something or go somewhere?"

A boy shouted: "I wanna buy a sport car miss,, like Ferrari or something"

I said :"that's great, I also love car.. haha"
At the same time, I imagined my self driving a sport car... ^^
it's all gone when another student said: "I wanna go to England, to London, I wanna visit London Eye"

I thought, she's got the point, I like england too, the unique buildings, the extra ordinary cultures, and so forth.

Anyway..

I continued asking my students one by one, and I was kinda shocked when there was a student answered: "I wanna buy a big house for my family"

It shocked me because, everyone said, "I" only, but this student added "my family" in the end of her sentence.

My family.. it's a common word, it's a noun, or something..

but the meaning is so deep that people will never forget how they live with their family.

I cannot imagine if someone lives on his/her own feet with no family at all.
I mean... at the first time it might be easy, we can do whatever we like without thinking "my family will hate this"

but then I imagine my self having a big house and a sport car, visiting great countries, and so on without having a family...

I don't think I'll be happy....

What about you???!!?